Ciara Miller addressed West Wilson‘s dating concerns after last week’s episode of Summer House.

As their current relationship status remains a mystery, despite Ciara’s recent visit to West’s hometown, Ciara, 28, reflected on West’s “selfish” behavior as the 29-year-old defended his stance and Paige DeSorbo, 31, suggested he seek therapy to address his inability to commit.

“He’s 30 — we round around here. You’re 30, and like, you look at a relationship like handcuffs. And which, he said, he was selfish,” Ciara recalled on a recent episode of the Summer House: After Show. “He’s literally said that he has dated a girl for two years and called her his girlfriend for a week out of those two years.”

According to West, his desire to remain single is because he “[likes] to do what [he wants] to do.”

“When I travel for work, I’m gonna go out, I’m gonna f*ck around. And this doesn’t mean, like, just hook up with chicks, but I probably get drunk, not be a good texter. That’s just what I’ve been doing for the last few years,” he explained. “And I do think I’ve made a lot of important and good life decisions with only my interests at hand, so I’ve just been very, very, very happy with the life that I’ve lived thus far.”

“Giving up independence is frightening,” he added.

As for his past relationships, West said that while he’s been involved with women who care about him, and who he cares about, those romances ultimately died out “because of [him].”

“I think they’re relationships, but on paper, they’re not,” he clarified, adding, “I just went on a rant about how I appreciate being single. So I don’t feel bad about it.”

Meanwhile, in her own segment, Paige mentioned the backlash she’s received for not yet being married or having a child with boyfriend Craig Conover, 35.

“I’m over here being just a little bit nervous to have a baby, bring a child into the world, sign a marriage certificate, and people are like, ‘You’re stupid!’ And [West] is like, ‘I’m scared to get a girlfriend!’ You’re 29. You should see a therapist because that’s like really scary,” she stated.

“[And] the idea of, like, delusion … You’re seeing Ciara who, like, who out there are you trying to make room for?” she wondered.

Summer House season eight airs Thursdays at 9/8c on Bravo.